Imagine you are at the dinner table with family members that you haven’t seen for a long time. Conversation is a bit stilted or superficial “Pass the sprouts please” “Did you see Eastenders last night?”
I bet you’d get some surprises. I bet you’d look at some family members for a fresh angle. I bet the atmosphere in the room would change to a more positive, engaged, intimate one where people started feeling better about themselves and therefore better about each other.
Try it and let me know how you get on.